I'm so happy to wish all a beautiful World Mental Health Day by sharing this book that is so important to me. Don't see The New Black Woman and believe you have to be a Black woman to read it. Do you know a Black woman? Do you love a Black woman? Do you work with one? Do you ask one to be a good neighbor and water your plants or sit your cat while you travel? Do you have one or more teaching your children, being their second mothers all day in school as their job while you probably make way more money at yours? Do you order from her restaurant and brag on how good her food is? Do you have one or a few in your book club, professional group, gym, lecture hall or church pew?
Category: Womanism
Celebrating Adele with Oprah
These ladies both look beautiful, powerful and serene. Health always comes before weight. More self-made women in media, please.
Zora Would Want You To
On days like this, meaning a notable artist like Zora Neale Hurston's birthday, the custom is to suggest enjoying his or her work and to "support" others like them in their names. However, something tells me this is not what Zora would want. I think most writers take their birthdays off for things like cake, people, wine and gluttony over discipline. So today Zora wants us to party in her name. And for you to write your own novel, put elbow grease on your big dream and take her as example somebody somewhere will love your work someday.
Negress Allure (in honor of sisters at the 2017 MET Gala…)
Aย Cosmopolitan online piece pointed out how women of color were best-dressed at the 2017 MET Gala. This got me to thinking about how long Black women have been unsung fashion and beauty changemakers...
When We Are Witnesses…for Kitty Genovese
No matter what I have learned from her brother Bill Genovese's heart-wrenching push for the truth, I still can not extinguish the feeling of seeing myself in Kitty Genovese: young, happy, independent, innocent, moving toward the future, and fated to be a woman living alone in American big cities.
My tribute to my Grandma Vanilla at her homegoing…
This woman is the strongest example of power and sacrifice to higher purposes I have ever known up close and personal. She shows us life lived to maximum potential, and inspires us all to the same.
We Love Barbie…But We Need New Dolls: My piece on Artist Tiffany Gholar over at BlogHer.com.
โAs a young woman dealing with my own issues of body image, I began to look differently at Barbie dolls. I began to wonder whether my re-emerging interest in fashion dolls was a good or a bad thing. And the more I confronted my own disordered patterns of eating and exercise, the more I realized the extent to which social pressure to conform to such stringent standards was the real issue I was facing.โ -Tiffany Gholar, THE DOLL PROJECT